Bore pie and snooze sauce. Nothing really mind-blowing to say today. Except that I have cramps. You�re welcome in advance for me sharing with you.
Paige, the little girl that�s been picking on Jackie, is in a situation. Every day I�m becoming more and more aware that this child is not being treated like the innocent little person that she is. It seems she�s more like the parent in her home. She stays at home while mom parties it up. Sad.
I only say this because her mom, Bana, is an absolute moron. I shouldn�t judge, but well, I�m going to, so sue me. Bana is a drug-addicted person. She also believes that since she got pregnant at a young age, that her daughter should just stop growing for the next 6 years until her Mommy grows up. Gimme a break.
I know drug addiction when I see it, as well as most people should. It�s just sad. For the kid.
All I know is Bana disappears for days at a time, and leaves Paige with her Grandma. It�s really sad. Grandma has a good job working, but she can�t keep it in the house because her 25-year-old daughter wants to smoke it up and spend the rest on clothes and men and not on her own child.
I see Paige and I see a lot of little kids. Not being loved and cherished, but not necessarily being �abused� either. However I�m starting to think this does qualify as neglect. The child wears clean clothes, but she smells, and her hair is always greasy. She takes off her feet and small animals die. It�s sick. People are talking about it but not doing anything, but I�m going to talk to the school.
Bana is never home when Paige gets off the bus. Bana assumes that �someone� will watch her kid until she saunters up her steps like the Queen of England. Bana has now taken advantage of 3 of our residents this way. All three residents have put their foot down. Does Bana know now that she cannot leave her 6-year-old to fend for herself? I mean, between you and me, I know one of us moms will keep an eye out for her. But it gets old. One should never assume someone will watch their child.
Last night, Bana had the NERVE to walk down and ask if she could use my phone, explaining breezily �We�ve never been without a phone in my life!� and tossing her fake blonde hair around. Yeah right, and I just fell off a turnip truck. I said, �Sure, but I don�t make a habit of letting people use my phone..� She�s like �Oh, well, if you don�t want me to..� trying to hand it back. No, spare me, �You go ahead this time.�
Well, I should�ve known that dopey would dial 9 different numbers (�my gosh I forgot the number!�) before she got the one right. Her brain is drug-addled after all. After an eon, she finally handed my phone back.
Then we talked about Ms. Roseybutt.
I thought the phone incident was over but one of the 9 numbers called back and woke Jackie up at 9:15 p.m. The lady on the other end was just as sorry as I was. I explained the sitch to her. Junkie, you know, uses your phone, calls the home planet, tee hee. We hung up quickly.
I want to be kind and tolerant but I also grit my teeth when I see someone more intent on partying it up than raising their child. You don�t have to choose between being a sexy person or a mom. You can be both. I love my daughter that�s why I don�t go out all the time. I am modest too for the same reason, she is watching. You can be womanly and still modest. You don�t need to show all the merchandise honey. I think girls get their ideas of what women are supposed to be like from their mothers along with other people. I don�t want my daughter to see me dressed up ala tarte.
It�s also good to communicate with your presence, love and stability that you�re child is important to you. I�m sure little Paige doesn�t feel very important. That�s so sad.
1:00 p.m. - 2003-10-15
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